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		<title>How does one die of grief?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Qui-Gon asked: It seems like they&#8217;re exaggerating to me. A lot of people in history, supposedly die of this. Usually woman, after their husbands die. dying plant Share and Enjoy:]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Qui-Gon</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>It seems like they&#8217;re exaggerating to me.</p>
<p>A lot of people in history, supposedly die of this.  Usually woman, after their husbands die.</p>
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		<title>How would I go about dying my hair two different colors?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[nelo c asked: I&#8217;ve been dying my own hair for years, first of all. My hair is a medium shade of red naturally.. and I&#8217;ve let it grow out for the first time in months. I&#8217;ve decided that I wanted to dye my hair a more intense, almost orange, coppery red with the underneath/bangs being [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>nelo c</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been dying my own hair for years, first of all. My hair is a medium shade of red naturally.. and I&#8217;ve let it grow out for the first time in months. I&#8217;ve decided that I wanted to dye my hair a more intense, almost orange, coppery red with the underneath/bangs being a medium shade of blonde. I&#8217;m not entirely sure how to go about this, though. Should I dye my hair the red shade all over first and then add the blonde over that after I shampoo my hair.. or should I do each separately?</p>
<p>Oh, and I&#8217;m not looking to go to a salon. I don&#8217;t have the money and I have a lot of experience dying my own hair and it always comes out looking even and fine.. so please don&#8217;t suggest that.</p>
<p>Thanks in advance!</p>
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		<title>I&#8217;m experiencing all consuming delayed grief over my deceased college boyfriend. What should I do?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Mar 2009 20:57:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[elleroy5 asked: I have been married for almost 20 years to a wonderful man who loves me dearly and I have kids. I recently found photos and letters from my college boyfriend who has been deceased for almost 20 years. I am experiencing a lot of unresolved guilt and grief and missing him desperately. I [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>elleroy5</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>I have been married for almost 20 years to a wonderful man who loves me dearly and I have kids. I recently found photos and letters from my college boyfriend who has been deceased for almost 20 years.  I am experiencing a lot of unresolved guilt and grief and missing him desperately.  I am in therapy and reading books on grief, but to no avail.  What should I do?</p>
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		<title>How can you be pro-life if you are for the death penalty?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rosebee asked: And how can you be against the death penalty but for abortion? I have mixed feelings on the death penalty. I am against abortion because it takes a life, and the same for the death penalty. HOWEVER- I think the death penalty is a lot more ethical than holding a person in a [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Rosebee</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>And how can you be against the death penalty but for abortion? </p>
<p> I have mixed feelings on the death penalty. I am against abortion because it takes a life, and the same for the death penalty. HOWEVER- I think the death penalty is a lot more ethical than holding a person in a 8&#215;8 cell for the rest of their lives. I&#8217;m for supervised community work and hard labor over life in prison, definately. There&#8217;s got to be a way to punish criminals, but by killing them, are we any better than them?</p>
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		<title>Why do I struggle so much with prolonged grief?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[OMIFL24 asked: My mother in law died 2 years ago from cancer. She was diagnosed in November and died the following May. We spent 2 weeks, the whole family, staying at the house caring for her. It was a very traumatic event to watch and be involved in; she was in a lot of pain. [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>OMIFL24</strong> asked: </em></p>
<p>My mother in law died 2 years ago from cancer. She was diagnosed in November and died the following May. We spent 2 weeks, the whole family, staying at the house caring for her. It was a very traumatic event to watch and be involved in; she was in a lot of pain. I still to this day feel very much effected when it comes to mind; sometimes feeling like it never really happened. How long until my mind processes this and it doesn&#8217;t trigger me as much emotionally?</p>
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		<title>Why do I receive a lot of grief for being a 21 year old college student with no interest in drinking?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dreamcast2001 asked: I don&#8217;t look down upon drinking, I have no religious reasons for not drinking, I even recognize with the PROPER amount it can be good for your health. But, I have no interest in drinking AT ALL, so why do my college contemporaries give me so much flack for it? death music Share [...]]]></description>
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<p>I don&#8217;t look down upon drinking, I have no religious reasons for not drinking, I even recognize with the PROPER amount it can be good for your health.  But, I have no interest in drinking AT ALL, so why do my college contemporaries give me so much flack for it?</p>
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